How to Be More Physically Attractive (Men)
Being physically attractive is a vague goal, and probably unattainable; moreover, attractiveness is defined differently by different people. "Be healthy" may be a more concrete goal, if you equate attractiveness with physical fitness. Different cultures define attractiveness in different ways, and often there are groups of people within those cultures who define attractiveness entirely differently. Thus it's impossible to give tips that apply to all or even most individuals.
Believe in yourself. Otherwise you're never going to think you've reached a stage of "attractiveness," even if everyone else does.
Relax. Many people, if not all people, are somewhat insecure about their physical attractiveness. Realizing that others are just as nervous around the issue will help you stay in perspective.
Determine the type or types of people you want to attract. For instance, straight athletic women with corporate jobs or punk guys - obviously different crowds and therefore different attractions.
Be comfortable in your sexuality and your gender role. Not all men have to be masculine! If masculinity is something that you value and those whom you want to attract also value it, you may want to accentuate your masculine qualities. On the other hand, some people are attracted to androgynous or feminine men, or simply men who have a balance of masculinity and femininity, and won't freak out over wearing a pink shirt. Only you will know what fits you best, and what those whom you want to attract are interested in. The key is to identify your sexuality and gender role and become comfortable with it.
Find clothes that fit your image. If you don't feel like you're as attractive as you would like to be, clothes and other accessories can help you feel more confident. Whether your look is professional, casual, preppy, punk, emo, country-western, urban or some combination of these, your clothes will help communicate who you are, and who you want to be. Choose clothes that accentuate your best features. If you have a muscular torso, go ahead and wear smaller shirts that will show it off. If you have nice eyes, accentuate their colour by wearing the opposite colour on the colour wheel - if you have blue eyes, wear orange; this will make your eyes stand out.
Believe in yourself. Otherwise you're never going to think you've reached a stage of "attractiveness," even if everyone else does.
Relax. Many people, if not all people, are somewhat insecure about their physical attractiveness. Realizing that others are just as nervous around the issue will help you stay in perspective.
Determine the type or types of people you want to attract. For instance, straight athletic women with corporate jobs or punk guys - obviously different crowds and therefore different attractions.
Be comfortable in your sexuality and your gender role. Not all men have to be masculine! If masculinity is something that you value and those whom you want to attract also value it, you may want to accentuate your masculine qualities. On the other hand, some people are attracted to androgynous or feminine men, or simply men who have a balance of masculinity and femininity, and won't freak out over wearing a pink shirt. Only you will know what fits you best, and what those whom you want to attract are interested in. The key is to identify your sexuality and gender role and become comfortable with it.
Find clothes that fit your image. If you don't feel like you're as attractive as you would like to be, clothes and other accessories can help you feel more confident. Whether your look is professional, casual, preppy, punk, emo, country-western, urban or some combination of these, your clothes will help communicate who you are, and who you want to be. Choose clothes that accentuate your best features. If you have a muscular torso, go ahead and wear smaller shirts that will show it off. If you have nice eyes, accentuate their colour by wearing the opposite colour on the colour wheel - if you have blue eyes, wear orange; this will make your eyes stand out.
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